Saturday, December 31, 2005

Pope attacks gays in end of year address

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to an article published by 365gay.com, His Holiness, Pope Benedict XVI has attacked, yet again, gays and gay families. In a New Year's Eve vespers service the Holy Father stressed the importance of the family as based in marriage "in the life of the church and of society." According to the article:
"The family has always been at the center of attention of my venerable predecessors, especially John Paul II," Benedict said before a packed congregation in St. Peter's Basilica. "He was convinced, and reiterated it many times, that a crisis within the family comes at the grave detriment of our civilization." In his homily, the pontiff referred to an address he gave in June on the role of the family, when he referred to marriage as a union between man and woman and condemned same-sex unions as anarchic "pseudo-matrimony." Benedict said Saturday he spoke that day "to underline the importance of the family founded on a marriage in the life of the church and of society."
Technorati Tags: , , , , , ,

Oprah viewer admires gay teens

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

A post from The Equality MySpace Blog w/ Matt Hill: Oprah viewer admires gay teens Oprah Winfrey recently did a show on homosexuality. You can check out the website on the show here: http://www2.oprah.com/tows/after/200512/ tows_after_20051223.jhtml On the site you can watch a segment of the show as well as see the quote of the day by singer Billy Porter. While I was looking at the site, I noticed a comment which was made over the internet by one of Oprah's viewers:
"I really respect anyone who has come out, especially all those younger teens. I believe they have cleared the biggest obstacle to living with happiness for gay people. I just wish I could have the courage and character to see how my life could be better by coming out. I wonder what a world would look like where gay people didn't have to face such hardships to be true to themselves." — 64jon5
It is really awesome that the courage of LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender) teens have been acknowledged, especially on such a big venue as Oprah can provide. We should all take the time to remember, though, that LGBT persons are not the only ones who ever have to "come out". All of our straight allies have to, at one time or another, come out as such. Somewhere along the way, our straight allies come out by saying "I support you and I support LGBT equality." Doing such thing can make straight teens just as vulnerable to parental and familial rejection as well as rejection from friends. It can also open them up to some of the same harassment LGBT youth receive. So, just as the thought for the day, keep in mind all of our straight allies and offer them as much support as you would any LGBT person. Similar to the help of the white majority during the 1960s Civil Rights Movement, the LGBT Rights Movement needs the help of our straight allies. Technorati Tags: , , , , , , ,

Mental disease - Part 2

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

Well, as it always seems inevitable these days, it looks as though I have managed to upset some people in regard to my recent post Homosexuality a disease? Fellow blogger poses the question , which I featured on The Equality MySpace Blog w/ Matt Hill. A MySpace reader accused me of being a "reactionary" and attacking something when no attack was needed. I beg to differ on that one. Disagreement is healthy and Anonymous Soldier voiced his opinions and thoughts and I did the same in return. It is my opinion that using the words "mental disease" or "mental disorder" along with the words "homosexuality" or "gays" is not only wrong, but dangerous. Although a commenter on Anonymous Soldier's blog noted that homosexuality, just as anything else can become a mental disorder if it causes one not to function in society, it must be stressed that homosexuality is not a mental disease or disorder in and of itself; if it were, homosexuality would still be listed in the DSM. As the commenter pointed out, fear of cockroaches is not a mental disease, but it has the possibility of becoming so if one's phobia of cockroaches disables them from living and functioning in life properly and rationally. The same is true with homosexuality, in cases where a person may have conflicts with his or her sexual orientation, therefore leading to irrational behavior, thoughts or actions. But all in all, I still think it is important that everyone understand that homosexuality, in and of itself, is not a mental disease or disorder, although the radical, anti-gay right still tries to paint homosexuality as a disease and departure from the natural and moral order. The claims of the Right, however, are rooted in nothing but religiously-based bigotry, hatred, ignorance and prejudice. Technorati Tags: , , , , , , ,

Political & religious bigotry combine for upcoming 'Justice Sunday'

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to an article published by 365gay.com (Hat tip: Pam's House Blend), political and religious leaders will are organizing another 'Justice Sunday', this time on the eve of the Senate confirmation hearings for Supreme Court Nominee Judge Samuel Alito. The organizers say that Alito will protect "traditional marriage" and they are going to send out their messages of bigotry and hate via satellite to churches and homes across the nation. According to the article:
The program will originate at the Greater Exodus Baptist Church in Philadelphia. Scheduled speakers include U.S. Sen. Rick Santorum (R.-Pa), Rev. Jerry Falwell and James Dobson of Focus on the Family. Santorum who has White House aspirations in 2008 is one of the sponsors of a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage. Falwell and Dobson are longtime opponents of LGBT civil rights. The Jan. 8 program, "Justice Sunday III: Proclaim Liberty Throughout the Land," follows two previous gatherings designed to rally support for conservative positions on abortion, gay marriage, prayer in public schools and other issues. The earlier events were held during the Senate showdown over judicial filibusters in April and before Chief Justice John Roberts' confirmation hearings in August. Democrats and LGBT groups accused speakers of trying to impose their religious views on the country.
Alito's nomination has been opposed by a host of LGBT civil rights groups, including Lambda Legal, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Human Rights Campaign, National Center for Lesbian Rights, and Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. In 2001, Alito authored a decision in the case of Saxe v. State. The decision declared unconstitutional a school anti-harassment policy including sexual orientation. The suit had orginally been brought by a group of "Christians" claiming that their rights to free speech (i.e. to tell people they are going to hell and to call them derogatory names) would be breached by the policy. On the flip side, however, Alito wrote as a law school student that discrimination against gays in employment and hiring "should be forbidden" (see story from 365gay.com). Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , , ,

Homosexuality a disease? Fellow blogger poses the question

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

I read an interesting post on An Army of 1 in 10 today. Anonymous Soldier has posed the question: "What if homosexuality is a disease — would that really be so horrible?" Before actually posing that question he states:
Why are we (”we” as in homosexuals) are so opposed to the idea that maybe the APA was wrong to delist homosexuality as a mental illness? What if it is a mental illness? There’s certainly no solid proof of a biological origin for it, and it serves no evolutionary purpose. So why should homosexuality exist as a biological divergence in human sexuality? Do I personally believe it to be a mental disorder? Of course not. But that’s grounded in nothing more than faith. Faith that I am not suffering from a potentially treatable disorder. It’s certainly not based on a solid scientific foundation. Sure, there’s evidence that homosexuality is in part, genetically determined; but there’s no proof for this. Deviations in brain structure do not constitute proof of a biological origin for homosexuality. My personal belief is that homosexuality is partly genetic and partly due to environmental factors within the womb. And even then, there exists only the potential for homosexual preference until puberty hits and the hormones begin to change the structure of the brain. Yes, I believe that it’s innate and immutable; but again, that’s only a belief. No different from the belief that it’s a conscious choice, or that it’s a mental disorder originating from something lacking in one’s childhood. So why do we rail against that belief when we have no proof against it? I’d have to say it’s the fact that people don’t like being labelled as suffering from a mental disorder. Perhaps the idea that homosexuality might one day be treatable like schizophrenia or bipolar disorder scares us. We want to be thought of as normal, and having the possibility loom over us that we’re not causes us to lash out.
Personally, I have to say that I'm disgusted that a gay person, epsecially one with the potential of reaching thousands of people with his words, would even dare to say something such as this. No, homosexuality is not a mental disease. If it were, there would have been enough evidence to keep it classified as one and the APA would have never taken it out of the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders). Anonymous soldier claims that homosexuality "serves no evolutionary purpose" and then asks "So why should homosexuality exist as a biological divergence in human sexuality?" My friend, a student studying history who is also interested in anthropology and the study of people, once told me to consider the fact that homosexuals could be nature's way of controlling the human population. It is a fact that homosexuals do not reproduce as much as heterosexuals, mainly because the homosexual sex act does not carry with it the possibility of reproduction. A heterosexual couple can have many children, who in turn, have the possibility of having many children, and so on and so on. Homosexual couples do not carry that possibility. The only way homosexual couples can have children is to adopt or through surrogacy or through artificial insemination, all of which never lead to the "accidental" births we so often see in the heterosexual population. The flip side of this arguement would be that gays came about through intelligent design:
If it's not evolution... I have to agree with Dennis Rogers about homosexuality ("Old truth in young gays," Oct. 15). Homosexuality is very complex behavior; it appears in every generation, in every culture and in many species besides our own. It can't be a product of evolution because homosexuals don't reproduce. Homosexuality must be a product of Intelligent Design. Steve Klein Raleigh October 21, 2005
Another thing to consider is that anti-gays use the premise that homosexuality is a disease by using "evidence" of all the negative side effects of living a "homosexual lifestyle". What about all of the negative side effects of the "heterosexual lifestyle"? In fact, I even posted about a letter to the editor on heterosexuality's negative side effects:
Re the letter, "Facts to add about homosexuals" (Nov. 28): If we're going to generalize that folks who live a "homosexual lifestyle" face many ills, we'll need to discuss the ills of the "heterosexual lifestyle." For example, the U.S. birth rate for teenagers in 1997 was 52.3 live births per 1,000 women age 15 to 19. Teen pregnancy is a heterosexual problem. Also, in America, 54 percent of new HIV/AIDS infections are among heterosexuals. This isn't even addressing that the incidence rates for sexually transmitted diseases chlamydia, herpes, gonorrhea and human papilloma virus -- within the entire adolescent population in the United States have increased dramatically in the past decade. For example, 40 percent to 50 percent of all sexually active females have had a previous HPV infection, now known to account for most cases of cervical cancer. Lastly, per the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the 2003 marriage rate in the United States was 7.5 per 1,000 total population, and the divorce rate 3.8 per 1,000 population. This apparent 50.7 percent divorce rate is a heterosexual problem. So to follow logic similar to the letter, students should be educated that heterosexuals aren't necessarily "bad" people, but that the "heterosexual lifestyle" is bad for people.
My point is this... people are people and love is love. To be able to love is the greatest gift of all. To me, it does not matter how or who you love... Woman to Woman, Woman to Man or Man to Man. All that matters to be is that love be true and right; love must be something between two people, where both are respected and none are hurt. To say that our love is a "mental disease" is diseased in and of itself. I'm sorry Anonymous Soldier, but no matter how good your intentions, posing such a question was, at least in my opinion, wrong and disrespectful to all people who love, everywhere. Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , , ,

LGBT Advocacy & youth - Part 2

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

See... I told you all... us LGBT youth have got it covered. On top of my blogging activities here on my blog, I will also be blogging on The Equality MySpace Blog. Equality MySpace was started by Tully Satre, the 16 year old Executive Director of a LGBT advocacy group in Virginia, Equality Fauquier/Culpeper. Equality MySpace is reaching out to LGBTQ and straight youth across America and around the globe. Like I said in my previous post... the LGBT youth are definitely rolling things along in the LGBT Rights Movement today! Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , ,

Friday, December 30, 2005

LGBT Advocacy - Us youth have got it covered!

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

I've been talking to Tully Satre (view his blog here, which I have added to my blog links on the side), the 16 year old high school gay rights activist. He founded an advocacy group, Equality Fauquier/Culpeper, in Virginia and is its Executive Director. He is helping to start The Voice Project (www.voiceproject.org, the site is down until March) and is also working with Equality Virginia Tully is a great guy and an awesome advocate… With him in Virginia and with me here in North Carolina, you can bet we’ll have at least these two states covered when it comes to LGBT advocacy by youth! Tully is doing a lot though… Executive Director of an advocacy group at 16 years old… wish I was there, I’m still at the Board of Directors level, lol. Everybody check out his blog and take notice of what this guy is doing... maybe him and I will end up working together at the same LGBT advocacy group in the future, you never know. Like me, his focus of advocacy and activism is on LGBT youth, the most vulnerable population within the LGBT community. Here is an excerpt from a post on Tully's blog:
There are countless GLBT/Q youth trapped in their very own homes, in their very own lives. There are countless GLBT/Q youth thrown out on the streets - everyday - in our community. I used to visit a local teenager who had been thrown out of his house - because he told his parents he was gay. Brian* lived on a bench in front of a common building in Warrenton, (Fauquier County), Virginia. I haven't seen him since August. Brian was a junior at Fauquier High School (FHS) in Warrenton. He had shaggy brown hair, glasses, and loved the color black. He was gay, and his parents kicked him out at age 17. Brian tried countless times to commit suicide, but luckily he never succeeded. He never got his diploma. Brian is among the 30% of GLBT/Q youth who drop out of High School. I heard he found a home and is living with friends near the border of Maryland. He has a job and is making a living on his own - but not the living he could have made with the support of his parents, or the completion of High School. FHS does not have a Gay/Straight Alliance (GSA) - in fact - no public school in Fauquier County has a GSA. Brian had no one to turn to. I received countless reports from students at FHS who claimed that such efforts to create a GSA were not successful, and that in fear of retribution they did not take it to the ACLU. Another teen attending a different school in Fauquier County reported that he was forced by his parents to pretend to be straight, or he would be kicked out of his house. Other reports indicated drug use among local GLBT/Q teens that have had no peer support. All reports from teens, and friends of teens, who had been struggling with drug-related issues because of the societal pressure on their sexual orientation have recovered. However, they continue to struggle with an everyday addiction. With this, I realize two things: 1.) GLBT/Q Youth need our help. The leading cause of death for gay youth is suicide. E-mail me if you have questions on how to help our GLBT/Q youth tully 'at' efcva 'dot' org. (You can contact me as well at matt 'at' matthillnc 'dot' com, ~MH) 2.) I am one of the luckiest kids alive. I have compassionate, loving parents who have taught me to accept others as well as myself for who we are, and what we were born to be. (Ditto. ~MH) Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , , , ,

Virginia & Maryland anti-gay priorities: Discrimination & second-class citizenship

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to an article published by The Washington Times (not the Post, people... the Times is a conservative paper), anti-gay activists are putting the protection of "traditional marriage" at the top of their list of priorities in the new year Virginia and Maryland legislative sessions. Virginia's lawmakers have already approved an amendment banning recognition of same-sex relationships (including civil unions, domestic partnerships, and things as simple as wills and power-of-attorney agreements) but it has yet to be approved to go before voters. The amendment must pass in the assembly again in 2006 before it is allowed to go before voters. Maryland has repeatedly failed such an amendment:
Complicating the debate in Maryland is a lawsuit filed by nine same-sex couples who were denied marriage licenses this year. The lawsuit is pending in Baltimore City Circuit Court, and a ruling is expected soon. Maryland law defines marriage as a union of a man and a woman, but family groups pledge to continue lobbying for a constitutional definition because of the pending lawsuit. "We don't think the one judge should be making decisions that affect not only Maryland culture, but the national culture," said Doug Stiegler, executive director of the Family Protection Lobby. He said Maryland's 1973 marriage law does not go far enough, and complained that lawmakers have blocked proposed marriage amendments from full floor votes in the Democrat-controlled House and Senate. If a proposed amendment passes both chambers by a three-fifths majority, it will go to voters in November. Dan Furmansky, executive director of Equality Maryland, said he thinks a constitutional amendment subjects the rights of one group to popular vote. "I would like to think that Maryland legislators have indicated they are not interested in limiting people's rights," he said.
In Virginia, it looks as though the assembly will again approve of the proposed amendment, meaning that it would head to voters in November 2006. ====== Well... what can I say? I think it is very clear; discrimination is alive and well in the Virginia and Maryland (athough Maryland has an upper hand by having fair-minded legislators, which is something Virginia cannot claim). My family has property in Virginia and I have often contemplated moving to that property when I get older and commuting to work in Winston-Salem (only about a 45 minute drive). After what has happened in Virginia and their passing of a statute outlawing any type of legal recognition of same-sex couples, including wills and power of attorney agreements, I don't think I'll be moving to Virginia. It's a shame, too... my family settled in that area in the 1750s and my family has been around there since then. Oh well. Technorati Tags: , , , , ,

Anti-gay parent bashes NC Governor's School gay-friendly seminar

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

Logo of the NC Governors SchoolA letter to the editor from an anti-gay parent bashing the NC Governor's school was published today in The Daily Dispatch (Hendersonville, NC). The parent "regrets" sending her child to the honors school because of a seminar which was being offered, entitled "The New Gay Teenager":
To the editor: After reading the announcement concerning the nominees for the 2006 N.C. Governor's School program, I have to encourage the parents to research this program before entrusting the staff with their child. I expected the program to live up to its reputation for being an excellent academic enrichment program for gifted and talented students. However, my experience showed that people with other agendas have found this to be a very easy program with which to impress their beliefs on unsuspecting young minds. After my child returned from the 2005 North Carolina Governor's School-West program, I found a schedule from the final week which showed that an optional seminar entitled “The New Gay Teenager” had been sponsored by GSW. Parents were not given schedules as to the material that would be presented in the classes or seminars. In addition, it was conducted by GSW staff members who, according to the director, were all homosexual and relating their personal experience. I feel that this was totally inappropriate for the students who were 15, 16, and 17 years old. I totally regret sending my child to this supposedly great honors program. Remember that this program is supported by our tax dollars. Beverly Burrows Candler, NC
The NC Governor's School-West is held at Salem College in Winston-Salem, NC, during every summer. The East program is held at Meredith College. The Governor's School is the oldest statewide summer enrichment program for academically gifted students. The anti-gay parent may regret sending her child to the school but I regret that she has the audacity to accuse the NC Governor's School of trying to indoctrinate her child. Now I don't know for sure, but I can pretty much bet that the name of this optional seminar to which the anti-gay parent objects came from a very scholarly book by the same name: The New Gay Teenager, which was written by Ritch C. Savin-Williams, the Professor of Clinical and Developmental Psychology at Cornell University. The book itself was the recipient of the American Psychological Association's 2005 Distinguished Book Award. The New Gay Teenager, courtesy Harvard University PressDoing a quick Google search on the name of the seminar gave me that result, and I had thought I had seen the book itself in the Resource Library of UNCG PRIDE!. Here is a summary of the book, from the Harvard University Press:
Gay, straight, bisexual: how much does sexual orientation matter to a teenager's mental health or sense of identity? In this down-to-earth book, filled with the voices of young people speaking for themselves, Ritch Savin-Williams argues that the standard image of gay youth presented by mental health researchers--as depressed, isolated, drug-dependent, even suicidal--may have been exaggerated even twenty years ago, and is far from accurate today. The New Gay Teenager gives us a refreshing and frequently controversial introduction to confident, competent, upbeat teenagers with same-sex desires, who worry more about the chemistry test or their curfew than they do about their sexuality. What does "gay" mean, when some adolescents who have had sexual encounters with those of their own sex don't consider themselves gay, when some who consider themselves gay have had sex with the opposite sex, and when many have never had sex at all? What counts as "having sex," anyway? Teenagers (unlike social science researchers) are not especially interested in neatly categorizing their sexual orientation. In fact, Savin-Williams learns, teenagers may think a lot about sex, but they don't think that sexuality is the most important thing about them. And adults, he advises, shouldn't think so either.
As the anti-gay parent pointed out, the Governor's School seminar was optional. No one made her child attend, although she doesn't even mention whether or not her child did attend it. She talks of people using the Governor's School to push their own political agendas. I disagree... I think the Governor's School staff was trying to teach those who were willing (since it was optional) about diversity, acceptance, tolerance and also about how society may view sexual orientation and sexual identity. I am sure that the anti-gay parent is thinking of sex and sexual activities when the words "gay" or "sexual orientation" enters into her mind, but in my experience within any type of academic setting, sexual activities are something that would just not be discussed. I think it is ironic she wants to accuse others pushing an agenda. What exactly does she think she is doing? She is pushing an agenda of her own, one of bigotry and prejudice. Yes, you are right Ms. Burrows, the school is supported by tax-payer money... so guess what, you have to include all sides and you cannot exclude anyone. Although, I really liked the last paragraph of that book's summary and I think Ms. Burrows would be wise to follow its wisdom:
In fact, Savin-Williams learns, teenagers may think a lot about sex, but they don't think that sexuality is the most important thing about them. And adults, he advises, shouldn't think so either.
Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , , ,

Proof that anti-gay bigots want more than protection of marriage

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to an article published by 365gay.com, the same Christian political action groups which spearheaded the move to ban gaymarriage in Texas are now pushing a move which would take away funding to the university of Texas's LGBT Center. This is proof that the anti-gay, radical right wants to do more than just "protect marriage". They want to silence all gay people and take us to a real second-class citizenship. Want more proof: According to Lambda Legal, anti-gay groups are also suing to take away healthcare for LGBT domestic partners at the University of Maimi. My God... can gay people have any rights or should we just disappear? From the actions of the anti-gay bigots, you'd think that's what they'd want us to do: go away and never come back. But, of course, that is what they want us to do. It won't happen, though, because right always wins over wrong and they are just, simply put, wrong. Technorati Tags: , , , ,

Thursday, December 29, 2005

Forsyth County politics pick up again with homophobia, bigotry & prejudice

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

As Nathan Tabor announces his intentions to run for office, one thing becomes apparent: Homophobia, bigotry and prejudice will once again be the currency of Forsyth County politics. The Winston-Salem Journal LogoAccording to an article published by The Winston-Salem Journal, the race for Senator Ham Horton's seat in the North Carolina Senate is heating up. Nathan Tabor, a young Republican conservative activist (should be known as anti-gay bigot) from Kernersville, has announced that he will run for the Horton's seat in 2006, the 31st NC Senate District. Tabor (pictured right), who made an unsuccessful run for the 5th Congressional District in 2004, was called a "young Jesse Helms" by Liberty University founder the Reverend Jerry Falwell, who is himself one of the biggest anti-gay bigots in America (recall his placing blame for September 11th on the "feminists and homosexuals"). Tabor lost his 2004 bid for Congress to Rep. Virginia Foxx (R-NC-5); by the way, did everyone see her open the NY Stock Exchange yesterday with her grandchildren? How cute. Everyone, I am sure remembers the horrible anti-gay fear tactics which were used during that dreaded 2004 race for the 5th Congressional District. Even I found myself wrapped up into that melodrama when the now ousted City Councilmember Vernon Robinson decided to hold a counter-protest to my April 2004 demonstration against the Boy Scout's anti-gay membership policies. Needless to say and known to everyone, Robinson also lost his bid for Congress and in the process of angering Winston-Salem Democrats with his anti-gay bully tactics lost his City Council seat to Democratic newcomer Molly Leight this past November. It seems now, however, that Nathan Tabor is all too willing to insert the same anti-gay tactics into his race for the North Carolina Senate. Homophobia, bigotry and prejudice will once again be the currency of Forsyth County politics. How sad. In a commentary piece published today on TheConservativeVoice.com, Tabor mentions gay marriage as something which the Republican Party should resolve to fight:
Protect the sanctity of marriage. It should be no surprise that former Democratic President Bill Clinton is making headlines by sending a video of congratulations to singer Elton John for his “marriage” to his homosexual lover. The Democratic Party is, quite simply, the party of gay marriage. Given this fact of modern political life, the GOP is in the perfect position to protect the sanctity of marriage. Republican leaders must spearhead initiatives to ban marriage between homosexuals. Dr. Timothy J. Dailey of the Family Research Council has written, “By their own admission, gay activists are not simply interested in making it possible for homosexuals and lesbians to partake of conventional married life. Rather, they aim to change the essential character of marriage, removing precisely the aspects of fidelity and chastity that promote stability in the relationship and the home.” The push for gay marriage is, at its core, an attack on the traditional family. For the sake of our children and our children’s children, the Republican Party must take concrete action to put a stop to gay marriage.
Tabor goes on to say that fighting gay marriage should be one of the Republican Party's top three priorities; the other two being fighting abortion and big government. What ever happened to healthcare, employment, national security, economic stability, democratization and, let us not forget... the illegal and unconstitutional spying on American citizens? I've come under attack on the UNCG campus for being a conservative, or at least for being more conservative minded. Many people have said you can't be gay and conservative and the reason for their thinking is rooted in the anti-gay tactics of people like Tabor, who proclaim themselves to be "conservative". The thinking also comes from the mainstream media, who pick up this false ideology of what "conservative" means. Conservative does not mean Republican, and neither does it mean anti-gay. Being conservative, at least to me, means standing up for social decency, defending the tradition of American independence, bringing democracy to more people (within and without the United States), favoring a smaller, although not absent, federal government and states' rights (at least Tabor has that part right). Tabor, who has gone as far as to already have a campaign website, TaborForSenate.com, touts himself as the only acceptable, "conservative" successor to Senator Horton. In his list of those who supported him in his 2004 run for Congress are the names of some of the most anti-gay bigots in the nation: Pat Robertson, Beverly and Tim LaHaye, Bob Jones III, Jerry Falwell and many more. He has also worked with the likes of Jesse Helms and Elizabeth Dole. The sidebar on his website (pictured right) lists all of the supposed "important issues" of his campaign. I think that it is important to note that five out of the nine issues mentioned are among a large list of the Republicans' hot-button, scare-tactic issues. Although he highlights job creation, tax cuts, education, and balanced budget issues why does he feel the need to insert issues which serve only to push voters toward positions which tend to be prejudiced. One of those hot-button issues is of course the "protection of traditional marriage". Another is illegal immigration and while I can support the notion that illegal immigration is, of course, illegal and wrong (and that it must be stopped), I can also see another way in which to go about addressing the issue. It should not be used as one of those hot-button issues, as all it will do is fan the fires of anti-immigrant prejudice just as using anti-gay tactics will fan the fires of anti-gay prejudice. There is no room for such blatant homophobic and prejudiced tactics in Forsyth County politics. Winston-Salem citizens evidently understand this as they very loudly ousted Robinson from the City Council. Hopefully, the more "conservative" people (should be known as anti-gay bigots) of Forsyth County will understand this. Politicians and candidates everywhere need to understand how to stick to the issues and stop going off on conquests to control other people's lives and create an un-needed and un-American second-class citizenship. The Forsyth County Democratic Party says they will be mounting a challenge to the Republican candidate(s). They say they will have a "viable" campaign. I hope and pray to God that this is so, because we do not need another bigot in the North Carolina Senate. Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , ,

Arrest made in connection with murder of Tennyson's gay great-grandson

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

Image from The Times Margaret CameronAccording to an article published by The Times (London, UK), an arrest has been mad ein connection with the murder of Hallam Tennyson, the gay great-grandson of the Victorian age poet laureate Alfred, Lord Tennyson. Beryl Hallam Augustine Tennyson, known as Hallam to friends and family and aged 85 years, was found brutaly stabbed to death in his home in Highgate on December 21. He had several stab wounds and serious head injuries. Police, who described the act as a brutal offense against an elderly and vulnerable man, had appealed for help in the case from the community. According to the article:
Mr Tennyson was named after his great grandfather’s close friend, the writer Arthur Hallam. The death of Hallam prompted the elegiac, mournful sequence In Memoriam, which was published in 1850, the year that Tennyson was appointed Poet Laureate by Queen Victoria. Today the Metropolitan Police said in a statement that a man was being questioned at a West London police station in connection with the murder.
Technorati Tags: , , , , , ,

High school senior, GSA president plans & organizes gay-friendly prom

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to an article published by The Argus (Bay Area, CA), a high school senior and president of his school's Gay-Straight Alliance is planning and organizing for a gay-friendly prom, despite the prospect of possible protests by the Reverend Fred Phelps of Westboro Baptist Church. For that reason, prom organizer Justin Daley is reluctant to name the location of the prom. According to the article:
Justin Daley is more than happy to talk about the upcoming "gay friendly" prom he is organizing. Just don't ask him to mention where it will be held. The West High senior and president of his school's Gay/Straight Alliance Club is not trying to be coy, but at this point, he would simply rather not say. Not with an impending protest from the Westboro Baptist Church of Kansas, which brought its message of "God hates fags" to the Central Valley last spring to protest graduation day at Tracy and West high schools. "I don't want to make things too easy for Rev. Phelps and his followers," Daley said of his cloak-and-dagger routine surrounding the prom's official location. "We will announce the actual location of the event about a month before the prom." The self-described "hate mongers" from Westboro have made numerous trips to the West Coast in recent years to protest everything from "gay friendly" proms to funerals of American soldiers killed overseas. According to a fax from the Westboro headquarters, "America has raised a generation of filthy fags and dykes" and "every body bag filled with body parts is the work of our schools." The church claims that school officials are "irreversibly bound for hell" for allowing gay/straight clubs to form.
Even with the threat of an appearance by Phelps, Justin is sure that his prom will go on just fine. The prom, which is scheduled for April 13, is designed to be a safe and friendly event for LGBT students, but Daley is "quick to note that although the prom is labeled "gay friendly" it is open to anyone with an open mind":
"We have been accused of segregation, but this prom is all about including everyone," he said. "We are going to have an open-minded event that will give people the chance to know the community and not feel left out."
===== YAY for Justin and all the other LGBT and straight allied youth of his area. This event will definitely be one which many people enjoy and will, no doubt, help to spread the message of acceptance. Winston-Salem/Forsyth County has had proms like these in the past. Last year's prom, or so I hvae been told, attracted more than 200 teens... straight and gay. If schools are not willing to make proms safe and comfortable for all youth, regardless of sexual orientation, then I see no problem in gay teens creating their own proms. There will come a day, however, that these types of events will no longer be needed. Technorati Tags: , , , , ,

Frank criticizes Army Chief over attack of gay soldier in Arizona

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to an article published by 365gay.com, Congressman Barney Frank (D-Mass.) has written a letter to the United States Army Chief, criticizing him over the attack of a gay private in Arizona. In the letter, Frank chastises Army Chief of Staff General Peter Schoomaker over the handling of the beating and harassment case involving Kyle Lawson, a gay private stationed at Fort Huachuca in Arizona. According to the article:
Pvt. Kyle Lawson accused a fellow member of a training unit at Fort Huachuca in Arizona of punching in the face during a homophobic outburst at an off-post party after a friend let it slip that Lawson was gay. Lawson's nose was broken in the attack. Because the beating occurred off base the Sierra Vista police department responded. The soldier accused of hitting Lawson told police that Lawson made sexually suggestive remarks. But the Sierra Vista police officer who investigated the case says "there was no provocation." Lawson also says that a second soldier threatened him with a knife outside a barracks as word spread about his sexual orientation. He said he is so concerned about his personal safety he's sleeping on a cot in his drill sergeant's office. Police charged Lawson's alleged attacker with felony aggravated assault - a charge that draws an average 3 1/2 years in prison upon conviction in Arizona, more if a judge finds the crime was hate-based. Details of the case were turned over to military police at the base but the army has done little to prosecute the alleged attacker in a military court. Lawson said as far as he knows, his attacker was punished by losing some privileges, such as having his weekend pass revoked.
In his letter Frank says, "According to unchallenged reports, the local police believed the attack to be a criminal assault, with no justification such as self-defense." He continues, "Despite this, apparently at the request of the Army over which you preside, no charges were filed against the assailant and the consequence is that Private Lawson was doubly victimized, once by the assailant, and then by having to leave the Army in the absence of any action by those under your command to protect him." Frank is criticizing the Army Chief and the military claiming that they are ignoring their commitment to curb anti-gay harassment within the Armed Forces, which was made in 2000. General Schoomaker has not yet responded to the Congressman's letter. See earlier posts: ======= I really do hope that this will be the "straw which breaks the camel's back" in the controversy over the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy and the exclusion of openly gay American citizens from serving in our military. It is unjust and un-American to not allow a person the privelege of serving in their nation's military solely because he or she may be gay, and living honestly about. I hope Congressman Frank raises cain about all of this and I hope the House of Representatives and the Senate will both take notice. Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , , ,

GLAAD applauds new year of LGBT television characters

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to an press release from GLAAD (The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation), many know television shows will feature gay and lesbian characters, as well as gay-positive themes. In its press release GLAAD applauded the new year's upcoming schedule of shows containing gay and lesbian characters, including shows on HBO, Showtime, NBC, ABC, CBS and MTV. According to the release:
Four new network shows premiering in January (two comedies and two dramas) will feature LGBT characters. These join a host of reality shows and returning cable dramas that include LGBT portrayals. Of note, Showtime's "The L Word" introduces a female-to-male transgender character when it launches its third season on Jan. 8, and the HBO Western "Deadwood" will introduce a gay character when it returns in June. "Viewers can be both entertained and educated by stories on television that reflect the diversity of families and communities across this country," said Damon Romine, entertainment media director of the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD). "Images on television and in film have the power to help Americans embrace their lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender family members, friends and neighbors with understanding and acceptance."
GLAAD's press release also included a "snapshot" of the upcoming shows, as well as their tentative schedules. Click here to read the press release. Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Wednesday, December 28, 2005

Pope Benedict XVI named 'anti-gay person of the year'

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

The Washington Blade, Washington D.C.'s LGBT newspaper, has named Pope Benedict XVI its "Anti-Gay Person of the Year": Image by APBlessed bigotry: Pope Benedict XVI is Anti-Gay Person of the Year ‘God’s rottweiler’ actively pursues political agenda against gay marriage, priests By DYANA BAGBY Friday, December 23, 2005 Presiding over what some describe as the “strongest bully pulpit in the world,” Pope Benedict XVI, just eight months into his tenure, has unilaterally targeted gay men and lesbians as moral threats to society. From banning gay priests to publicly lobbying against same-sex marriage rights in Spain and Italy, Pope Benedict XVI appears to be taking a swift approach to excluding gay people from equal rights across the globe. “His rhetoric is obscene. He wants gays clearly taken care of — it’s almost like the Final Solution,” said Kara Speltz, a Catholic lesbian activist for Soulforce, an organization dedicated to ending anti-gay discrimination within all religions. For 20 years, Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger served under Pope John Paul II before being elected the 265th pope on April 19. During that tenure, Ratzinger authored some of the Vatican’s most anti-gay rhetoric, including a 1986 Vatican letter calling homosexuality “an intrinsic moral evil” and a 2003 battle plan instructing Catholic politicians to oppose gay marriage and gay adoptions. Pope has ‘ear of the world’ Dubbed “God’s rottweiler” and “the enforcer” long before taking the helm of the church that boasts a billion members worldwide, Benedict’s fervent approach to gay and other social issues is an intentional one meant to influence public policy, according to Chester Gillis, chair of the theology department at Georgetown University. “He knows very well the kind of claims he makes have political implications — he intends for them to have political implications,” Gillis said. “He wants to influence public policy in numerous places in the world and hopefully sway the powers that be to his side, especially on so-called social issues.” Under John Paul II, Cardinal Ratzinger served as prefect of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, the office once known as the Holy Inquisition. In that role, his writings were mostly circumscribed to Catholics and internal discourse within the church, Gillis said. But now as pope, his words aren’t just read by bishops but are heard throughout the world, giving Benedict enormous credibility when it comes to political influence, Gillis said. “It’s the strongest bully pulpit in the world,” Gillis said. “What he says is noted by everyone. Everyone may not agree or follow what he says, but clearly he has the ear of the world — and that’s a very privileged position.” ‘Scapegoating’ gay priests Benedict’s most recent anti-gay action to gain worldwide attention was the Vatican’s “Instruction concerning the criteria for the discernment of vocations with regard to persons with homosexual tendencies in view of their admission to the seminary and to Holy Orders,” released Nov. 29. The document essentially bans gay priests. The official “Instruction,” from the Congregation for Catholic Education, stated, “One cannot ignore the negative consequences that can stem from the ordination of people with deeply-rooted homosexual tendencies.” The "Instruction" also said men "who practice homosexuality, present deep-seated homosexual tendencies or support the so-called 'gay culture' cannot be admitted to seminaries.” The only exception would be for those with a "transitory problem" that had been overcome for at least three years.” In the United States, gay rights groups including the Human Rights Campaign and the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force publicly challenged the ban and urged gay Catholics and their allies to speak out against it to local priests and bishops. On Dec. 14, a group of gay Italian clergy posted an open letter to the Vatican on the website of the Italian news agency Adista, stating they felt like the Catholic Church’s “unloved and unwanted children,” the Associated Press reported. Adista, which leaked the document on the gay priest ban last month, said 39 priests, 26 diocesans and 13 more members of various religious orders had signed the letter. But the text reproduced on the website did not include the signatures or list their names, the AP reported. "We don't have more problems living chastely than heterosexuals do, because homosexuality is not a synonym of incontinence, nor of uncontrollable urges," the letter states. "We are not sick with sex and our homosexual tendency has not damaged our psychic health … we are Catholic priests ... with homosexual tendencies, and that fact has not stopped us from being good priests." In November 2002, in the midst of the church sex abuse crisis, the Vatican press office announced that the Congregation for Catholic Education was drafting guidelines for accepting candidates for the priesthood that would address the question of whether gays should be barred. However, the document reportedly had been in the works well before then. Gay Catholics and others have criticized the Vatican for blaming gay priests for the child sex abuse scandal, which they argued had nothing to do with homosexuality. “This is a scapegoat scheme masquerading as Vatican decree,” HRC President Joe Solmonese said in a statement. “What is being released today is a decree serving as a diversion that neither keeps children safe nor holds criminals responsible.” Soulforce’s Speltz said Benedict is simply seeking to dissuade independent thought among Catholics and church leadership. “He’s trying to create ‘Stepford Priests,’” she said. “And if any heterosexual Catholic thinks this is a good thing, they’re living in an illusion.” Fighting gay marriage The Vatican’s losing fight against legalizing gay marriage in Spain came just weeks after Ratzinger became Pope Benedict XVI. The Spanish Parliament legalized same-sex marriage June 30. Same-sex marriage also is legal in Canada, the Netherlands and Belgium. After the vote, the Catholic Church denounced the move as “unjust” and a threat to families. Sam Sinnett, president of the gay Catholic organization Dignity USA, said it was not the people supporting Spain’s public policy who had it wrong when the measure was approved, but rather the church’s hierarchy, which is out of step with the times. “Their consciences are misinformed,” Sinnett said in May. “They need to learn about social and medical sciences [about homosexuality] and incorporate them into theology.” The Catholic Church’s global influence, meanwhile, shouldn’t be underestimated, Sinnett said. The United Nations grants the Vatican status as a Non-member State Permanent Observer, rather than treating it as a nongovernmental organization. “That means it has greater influence on all countries,” Sinnett said. “When they use that power to interfere in the politics of another sovereign country, that is incredible.” Mel White, founder of Soulforce, said this summer that Benedict and the Vatican’s response to Spain’s politics is indicative of the “Dark Ages mentality” of the Roman Catholic Church’s leadership. “They have gone from cardinals sitting in Vatican City having bad ideas to spreading these bad ideas to the world. The Vatican is now superimposing its theology on everybody,” White said. “It has too much power to be considered anything but an enemy.” ------------------------------------------------------- EDITORS’ NOTE (Washington Blade): As 2005 draws to a close, many media outlets will announce their selections for person of the year. This year, Blade editors decided to take a different approach to that tradition. Certainly, there have been victories in the fight for gay rights in 2005. But we decided against naming a single person of the year, as this year’s highlights consist mostly of individuals choosing to stand up to anti-gay discrimination in their own communities — whether it’s gay teens fighting to form school clubs, gay couples speaking out for their rights to be recognized as families, or AIDS activists who continue fighting for funding and frank prevention methods in an increasingly conservative climate. Unfortunately, the fight against gay rights is being waged on a much larger scale. And while anti-gay groups like the American Family Association and Focus on the Family tried to build their influence throughout the year, we decided the single greatest threat to gay people in the United States and globally came from the man who wields “the strongest bully pulpit in the world.“ ======= Everybody remember when I called the Pope a homophobe? The truth is inescapable and I'm sorry if it seems irreverent or even blasphemous, but the truth is the truth. Technorati Tags: , , , , , , ,

KKK recruiting in Greensboro

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to an article published December 28th on the Fox 8 WGHP website, and featured on their December 28th newscast, the KKK has been recruiting in Greensboro. In one neighborhood, residents found white supremist flyers:
White supremecy and racial segregation, not exactly the warmest of Christmas greetings. But some homeowners in Greensboro say, that's exactly the holiday message delivered to their doorsteps by the Ku Klux Klan. People found the fliers in a north western Greensboro neighborhood. One of the three pages wishes the community a happy holiday there's also an application to join the Klan for $35. The first requirment is to be a white christian practicing racial intergrity. None of the materails had a local contact. Only the klans website, a Harrison, Arkansas phone number and an address for the Klan's international headquaters. People in the neighborhood say they're more distrubed than shocked that the KKK would choose to bring their message of white supremacy to their front doors. FOX8 tried to contact the KKK's international headquarters to find out how many fliers it sent out and how it picked the neighborhoods. No one at the KKK returned our phone calls.
======= WOW! You would think that, by now, the KKK and other hate groups would have fizzled out. Human stupidity never ceases to amaze me. Everyone is fully aware of the KKK's historic stand of extreme racist and white supremist views, but what many people fail to realize is that the KKK is just as much of an anti-gay group as it is anti- everything else. This scares me a bit and I hope that the community will step up to show the KKK that they are not welcome here. Technorati Tags: , , , , , , ,

Charlotte foundation honors UNC-Chapel Hill student, LGBT youth advocate

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to an article published by the Charlotte Observer, the Echo Foundation of Charlotte will honor a UNC-Chapel Hill sophomore and LGBT youth advocate. Andrew Chan, a graduate of Providence High and UNC-Chapel Hill student, will be honored with one of the Echo Foundation's inaugural Young Heros of Hope Awards for his work in "spearheading programs that advocate fairness for gay, lesbian and bisexual youth". ====== Believe it or not, North Carolina youth are on the fore front of politics, activism and advocacy. Don't believe? Just take a look around my blog, or that of Samantha Korb's. Youth are heavily involved in North Carolina's LGBT advocacy scene. Youth are leading the way toward a brighter future and better lives for all Americans. Congrats to Andrew Chan. Technorati Tags: , , , , , , ,

Winston-Salem Theatre Alliance to hold auditions for gay-themed play tonight

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to an article in the Regional Briefs (B2) published by The Winston-Salem Journal, the Winston-Salem Theatre Alliance wil hold auditions for a gay-themed play tonight. Auditions for "Sordid Lives" will be held tonight, starting at 7:00pm Southeastern Center for Contemporary Art at 750 Marguerite Drive. According to the article:
Roles are available for five men. One role is for a man between the ages of 20 and 30, and the four others are for men between 30 and 50. Six women between 18 and 50 are also needed. Performances will take place Feb. 10-11 and 16-18. For more information, call 274-0350.
Technorati Tags: , , , , , ,

Tuesday, December 27, 2005

UNC-Chapel Hill GLBT-SA's push for awareness attacked by campus conservatives

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

A few weeks ago I posted about a letter to the editor in The Daily Tar Heel. The letter, which was written in November, was from UNC-Chapel Hill’s Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender – Straight Alliance (GLBT-SA) Co-chair Tommy Rimbach and addressed the issue of including gender-identity in the UNC-Chapel Hill non-discrimination policies and the issue of “gender-blind housing” on the University campus, as a part of the group's transgender awareness week in November. I just found the November issue of the “Carolina Review”, the "conservative voice" for the UNC-Chapel Hill campus. The feature article entitled “Flushed with Controversy: How UNC Wants to Install Unisex Bathrooms Across Campus” details another push by the GLBT-SA: unisex bathroom facilities for transgender persons. Needless to say, the article was, at least to me, somewhat of an attack on the GLBT-SA. The front cover of the magazine had blazoned across it the statement “Inside the GLBT-SA’s push for unisex bathrooms on campus”. To tell the truth, the front page looked more like a tabloid cover than that of a respectable “collegiate journal”. The people of the Carolina Review evidently do not realize why unisex bathrooms may be of use to transgender students. They claim that having such restroom facilities would do nothing for transgender students and would only hurt gay-straight relations. This assumption, at least in my opinion, is completely false. Having unisex restrooms (and, no, not all campus restrooms would become unisex) would help transgender students from having to make a decision which, in either direction, would have the possibility of causing them pain and suffering, be that mental or physical. Let’s take, for example, a male-to-female (MTF) transgender person. On one hand, this person could go with their biological sex (male) and go into the men’s room where she would face hostility from men who may not know that this female-looking individual is a biologically male. On the other hand, she could choose to go into the women’s room, where if it is known she is biologically male it could cause her problems with University staff and the administration. Now, I will be the first to admit that I am, myself, not as educated as others when it comes to transgender issues, but I am at least willing to empathize with their experiences and work, as an LGBT activist and advocate, toward creating awareness of their issues. Also, personally, I would see no problem in having unisex restrooms. Transgender students would not be the only ones to use them, as some people prefer the privacy of single restrooms as opposed to large, multi-toilet restrooms. On another note, as GLBT-SA Co-Chair Tommy Rimbach is quoted as saying, “it doesn’t make any sense to have [bathrooms] gendered if one person uses them at a time.” All-in-all, the GLBT-SA’s push for more awareness on transgender issues is an honorable one. From my experience not only as a Board member of UNCG PRIDE!, but as member of the group and student at UNCG, I can tell you first-hand that such awareness is badly needed on the UNCG campus. Hopefully, with the new spring semester starting up soon, UNCG PRIDE! will take some time to properly address transgender issues, educate its members and help to advocate for transgender students within the University community. P.S. - As a serious side note, I really liked how the Carolina Review actually cared enough to write about their student government (in another article), unlike how The Carolinian (UNCG student newspaper) all but ignores the actions of its student government, which, by the way, operates on a budget of almost $200,000 in student fees... you would think the students would care. Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , , ,

'Boy Code' destroying boys; 'gay' worst put-down for boys age 5 to 15

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

This article from the Duluth News Tribune documents what is known as the "Boy Code", a secret, unwritten gender code for boys. The article touches on numerous issues, but what stuck out in my mind was that calling a boy "gay" is the single most worse put-down for boys aged five to fifteen. Of course, I already knew this... many people involved in LGBT advocacy, especially youth advocacy knows this... "That's so gay" and "You're so gay" are more than just "sayings" or "phrases"; they are dangerously harmful words turned into sticks and stones. Excerpts from the article are below:
The Code: A boy's anchor, burden SOCIETY:The unwritten code's pressure to be tough and unemotional can be too much for many boys. BY RICK MONTGOMERYKNIGHT RIDDER NEWSPAPERS KANSAS CITY, Mo. - Big boys don't cry. It's written in the Boy Code. Be a man -- strong, independent. It isn't cool to excel in school. And dude, don't get all emotional. The Boy Code keeps a lid on emotions. Just ask girls. "There are a lot of things you need to express but you don't," says Kiera Cline, 16, to boyfriend Jonathan Smith, who grins and rubs her arm. "Why do guys do that?" Pressed to explain, Jonathan just shrugs: "If you run off your mouth, it's immature." William Pollack coined the code in his book "Real Boys: Rescuing our Sons from the Myths of Boyhood." The Harvard psychologist says the Boy Code creates a pressure cooker for many who don't really feel that tough and don't really wish to disconnect from mothers, as culture expects of boys -- but not girls -- by age 13. "Anyone who's been around boys knows the code," says Pollack, who is among academics and activist groups calling for its deconstruction. "It's shorthand for all the messages they're getting from home, from school, the media, the marketplace." " 'Be a little man,' we say. 'Cut your mama's apron strings.... Pull yourself up.' It's got a lot of boys silently suffering with a pain they don't even have words for." POWERFUL IMAGES The extent of that suffering is debatable. But the power of the code is obvious, beyond our escaping. It's there in the bulging arms and ripped abdomens of action figures. It's there in the sexual objectification of women in video games and popular music. The Boy Code is not one fashion line worn by all boys or even most. Rather, it is a list of accessories that -- when piled on -- make a full suit of armor. Show no fear. Avoid the honor roll. Stick to sports (boys' involvement in other school clubs is falling nationwide, surveys show). Oh yeah, whisper to other boy-coders about sexual exploits you've never had. So what's the harm? Nobody can knock strength, stoicism and masculinity, done right. As Pollack notes, however: "The code becomes so restrictive, it can put boys in a gender straitjacket and lead to an ungenuine life. Girls used to have their masks, too, but we've moved in a positive direction to take the mask away and let girls be themselves." Some in the boys movement resist lumping all male hang-ups into one code that must be corrected. "Boys are losing on almost every front because the system is stacked against them!" writes family values stalwart James Dobson in "Bringing Up Boys." "Is it any wonder why they are in such disarray?' But worrying Dobson, and most everyone, are the outcomes of mutated male toughness: bullying, bad grades, delinquency, sexual violence and low self-worth in those boys suffocating in the armor. (section removed) 'GAY' PUT-DOWN As Pollack says about one of the uglier, more divisive features of the Boy Code: "The largest put-down today for boys ages 5 to 15 is, 'You're gay.' " "So gay" has evolved into the all-purpose tease. Whatever is silly, stupid or irrelevant is "so gay." For people called gay, it can be deadly serious. Witness the carnage at Columbine High School, where such taunts helped drive two troubled seniors into gunning down a teacher and 12 classmates. At Winnetonka High School in Kansas City, Mo., teachers have been trained by the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network to address sexually oriented bullying. "Boys have a harder time, in different ways, than (lesbian) girls at school," said school counselor Alan Schuerman. "With boys, the bullying is more overt. It's in your face." For those who really are gay -- or who feel guilty thinking they might be -- he said many parents never find out about the teasing, or they offer this advice: "If you just act like a man, this wouldn't happen." Experts estimate that gay boys are three to six times more likely than straight boys to commit suicide. Dylan Theno was luckier than other boys: his parents knew how much he needed them. Dylan was labeled gay in his Kansas town of Tonganoxie, population 3,600, where the code made every school day agony since seventh grade. His parents remortgaged their two-bedroom home to pursue legal options. And this year, at 18, Dylan went to federal court, a plaintiff stating for the record he is not gay and alleging that school officials did little to stop the harassment. Two years earlier his mother found Dylan curled up in a ball on the couch, sobbing, shaking, begging to quit school. Cheryl Theno held him and resolved never to send him back. "Dylan was slowly falling apart in front of us," said his father, Alan. A wood craftsman, Alan spent more time than ever with his son. It was mostly Dad who pressed the fight with school officials to demand they enforce suspension policies for sexual harassment. He and Dylan's mother would enforce their own rule, that Dylan never strike back in anger. This was about justice, they told him, not vengeance. They turned the Boy Code on its head, comforting Dylan through his tears and supporting his taking Tae Kwan Do, its principles steeped in self-restraint. Once, he got into a fistfight at school. His parents made him paint an aunt's house as punishment. A judge recently upheld a harassment verdict against the school district, awarding Dylan $250,000 in damages. As appeals continue, he has his GED and is learning to weld. He still lives with his parents. "They were incredible," he says. It may sound gushy, but Dylan just nailed what experts say is the first line of defense against the code -- loving parents. Want masculinity? Teach your son empathy. Assure him it's OK to feel bad. Back off when he asks; hug when he needs it. Show him how to fight -- for justice. "Stay in touch," write Susan S. Shaffer and Linda P. Gordon in "Why Boys Don't Talk -- And Why it Matters." "As they get older, it may appear that they need their parents less often. "Appearances are deceiving: They still need you."
Technorati Tags: , , , ,

ART/OutGreensboro.com presents Annual Meeting

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to the website OutGreensboro.com, Alternative Resources of the Triad (ART), which runs the OutGreensboro.com website, has announced the date for its Annual Meeting. The Annual Meeting will take place on Saturday, January 14, 2005, from 7:00pm to 9:00pm at the Biltmore Greensboro Hotel in Downtown Greensboro. Food and drinks will be served, along with door prizes and a raffle. For more information please visit OutGreensboro.com. Alternative Resources of the Triad is also the parent group of QCYNT, the Queer College & Youth Network of the Triad. For more information on QCYNT click here to visit its site on OutGreensboro.com. Technorati Tags: , , , , , , ,

A good year for gays

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

My weekly posting of Deb Price's op-ed: 2005 was a year of good cheer for the nation's gays by Deb Price / The Detroit News Tuesday, December 27, 2005 Writing a headline to sum up what 2005 meant for the gay rights movement would be easy: "Global Warming." Canada, one of the United States' closest trading partners, and Catholic Spain welcomed gay couples into marriage. South Africa, once one of the world's most racially repressive countries, has reacted positively to its top court's declaration that gay couples must be allowed to wed next year to "affirm the character of our society as one based on tolerance and mutual respect." Before 2005, only the Netherlands and Belgium had same-sex marriage nationwide. While stopping short of full marriage, America's closest military ally, Great Britain, began offering civil unions to its gay couples. Among the first celebrants was Elton John, a singer known for extravagance who simply said his ceremony marked "the happiest day of my life." Prime Minister Tony Blair praised the law as "another step towards the fairer, more tolerant country which this Labor government pledged to build." Sadly, our own country, where the world's modern-day gay movement began in 1969, continues to give those of us who're gay the cold shoulder. U.S. gay couples, gay workers, gay soldiers and gay parents and their kids continue to suffer because basic protections available in pace-setting countries are missing or, at best, patchy here. In 2005, Kansas and Texas brought to 18 the number of states that explicitly ban gay marriage in their constitutions. But all the U.S. news wasn't grim: The legislature in Massachusetts, the only U.S. state where gay couples can wed, voted down an amendment to ban gay marriage. That vote, the U.S. milestone of the year, ensured gay marriages will continue, despite last-gaspers' efforts to the contrary. Bay State lawmakers were in tune with their people: By 57 to 37 percent, the state's voters favor gay marriage, according to a Boston Globe poll in March, nearly a year after the first weddings there. Seeing the reality that plenty of good comes from opening marriage to same-sex couples had changed hearts from a year earlier, when 53 percent opposed gay marriage. Another huge step forward was taken on the other side of the country. After anti-gays screeched that gay marriage shouldn't be decided by courts but instead by the people's elected representatives, the trend-setting California Legislature did just that, becoming the first U.S. legislature to embrace gay marriage. But the bill was vetoed by Republican Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger, who, in a surreal moment, said the matter should be left to the courts. The 2005 shakeup of the U.S. Supreme Court was also profoundly important. The change of two justices likely will move the court to the right on gay issues. But we should honor 2005 as the year Maine voters overwhelmingly refused to repeal a law banning anti-gay discrimination and the year Illinois adopted such protections. Connecticut quietly followed Vermont's 2000 lead, becoming the second state with civil unions. In Congress, legislation to allow gays to serve openly in the military was finally introduced and gained 109 co-sponsors. In the past two centuries, our planet has warmed up to the rights of women, people of all races and religious minorities. Gay people have been part of that warming trend for decades, but 2005 marks the moment when it really heated up. Original Source Technorati Tags: , , , , , ,

Anti-gay American Family Association turns attacks to NBC & new show with gay character

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to an article published by 365gay.com News, the anti-gay, right-wing American Family Association is turning its anti-gay attacks on NBC. AFA has called for its supporters to boycott NBC's new show "The Book of Daniel", which features primetime's only openly gay character. According to the article:
The series is planned to debut January 6 at 9:00 pm E/P time. "The Book of Daniel" stars Aidan Quinn (“An Early Frost”) as the Reverend Daniel Webster (pictured) an unconventional Episcopalian minister who not only believes in Jesus - he actually sees him and discusses life with him. His children include Peter (Christian Campbell, “Trick”), a 23-year-old gay son, who struggles with the loss of his twin brother. To confound matters even more, Peter is a Republican. Webster's daughter, Grace (Alison Pill, “Confessions of a Teenage Drama Queen”), is 16-year-old daughter who just happens to be a drug dealer. Then there's the 16-year-old adopted son who is having sex with the bishop's daughter, and Webster's wife who is "addicted to martinis". Webster's secretary is a lesbian who is sleeping with his sister-in-law. The character is only one of a handful of lesbian characters on TV this season. Further angering the AFA is Jack Kenny, the show's writer, who also is openly gay. The group is urging its members to write to NBC Chairman Bob Wright to voice their disapproval. A sample letter that the AFA has posted on its Web site warns Wright that the organization may target the show's advertisers.
===== The AFA is crazy... all they want to do is silence every opinion and viewpoint which does not line up to their own. This is un-American and plain wrong. Maybe they should change their name to the "Fascist Family Association". Technorati Tags: , , , , , ,

Anti-gays charge Knowthyneighbor with 'intimidation'

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

According to an article published by 365gay.com News, anti-gay supporters of a Massachusetts push to ban gay marriage are charging that Knowthyneighbor.org and the listing of all signers of the anti-gay petition is a form of "intimidation". Following up on an earlier post ('Do ye know thy neighbors?'), the website Knowthyneighbors.org was started by a gay couple and lists all 123,356 names of those persons who signed a petition to have gay marriage banned in Massachusetts; the site also lists signers' home addresses. According to the article:
Vote On Marriage, an umbrella organization made up of the Catholic Church and conservative Protestant groups, charges the Web site is a form of intimidation. It claims a number of people already have been threatened by gays after their names were made public. The site, KnowThyNeighbor.org, was set up by Thomas Lang and Alexander Westerhoff. The couple says that the site gives gay people the tools they need to defend themselves. Vote On Marriage submitted the signatures to Secretary of State William Galvin a week ago. The number was nearly double the 65,825 signatures required. The petitions were certified by Galvin and the names became public property.
====== Can someone please tell me how in the hell a minority group is supposed to threaten the anti-gay, right-wingers? Are they that scared of us? I guess it just goes to prove the old cliche on bullies... stand up to them and they can be just as scared as you can be. I hope and pray the Massachusetts Legislature does not let this ballot initiative go through. All of this "let the people decide" mantra is crap. Imagine if we had put slavery up to a vote, or maybe child labor... how about the female suffrage or civil rights in the 60s? Sometimes the majority is stupid and decisions need to be made by the courts and legislatures... sometimes the majority doesn't know what is right, even if they think they do. Thank God we live in America, where the majority may rule, but not at the expense of the minority!!! Time to resurrect an old writing from my old site on the UNCG server:
From "Majority Stupidity", April 21, 2005: During UNCG PRIDE!’s 2005 PRIDE! Week, Elizabeth Birch, formerly with the Human Rights Campaign, participated in a gay marriage debate with Robert Knight of Concerned Women for America. During the debate Ms. Birch said that while the majority does rule, it does not have the right to hurt the minority. She also said that sometimes the majority can be stupid and because of that marriage rights for gay couples shouldn’t be put up for a vote by the people. To prove her point, Ms. Birch recalled the days of slavery, the days of not letting women vote and the days of segregation. If any of these things would have been put up to a vote by the people, then America never would have become a more equal place for those people. Sometimes the majority is stupid and it is acting in this stupidity now in regards to gay rights.
Technorati Tags: , , , ,

Monday, December 26, 2005

Outrageous, anti-gay, right-wing comments of 2005

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

Samantha of Nothing too serious, yeah right has compiled a list of "The Most Outrageous Right Wing Comments of 2005". Here are two of the outrageous, anti-gay statements made by the right-wingers:
Focus on the Family founder and chairman James C. Dobson: Same-sex marriage would lead to "marriage between daddies and little girls ... between a man and his donkey." [Focus on the Family radio program, 10/6/05] Accuracy in Media editor Cliff Kincaid: "Have you noticed that many news organizations, in honor of former ABC News anchorman Peter Jennings, have embarked on a quit smoking campaign? So why don't our media launch a campaign advising people to quit engaging in the dangerous and addictive homosexual lifestyle? ... It appears that the homosexual lifestyle is as addictive as smoking." [Accuracy in Media column, 12/14/05]
And for added laughs, just because I though this was funny, here is an absolutely hilarious statement made by MSNBC's Tucker carlson (Who, I must say, I actually like as a journalist... don't ask me why, maybe it is just because he is one the cute, little preppy guys like me, lol):
Tucker Carlson: "Canada is a sweet country. It is like your retarded cousin you see at Thanksgiving and sort of pat him on the head. You know, he's nice, but you don't take him seriously. That's Canada." [MSNBC's The Situation with Tucker Carlson, 12/15/05]
Gotta love the bow-tie! LOL. Technorati Tags: , , , , , ,

Top story/issue of 2005: LGBT youth, schools, Zach Stark and the ex-gays

My blog has moved!!! Please visit my new blog for all the newest news, events, opinions and more!!!
You will be automatically re-directed in three seconds. Click the link to go to the new blog now. Use the search function on the new blog to find any story you are looking for on here.

I have covered so many LGBT issues, news stories and events on my blog this year (even though this did not start until July) that I have had a hard time trying to choose which story is worthy of receiving "top story of the year". Instead of choosing just one post or story, I have chosen a large and broad issue I have covered over and over again on my blog: Gay youth & teens. Along with this is the ex-gays' attack on gay youth and the story of Zach Stark, a 16 year old boy from Bartlett, Tennessee, who was forced into an ex-gay camp by his parents. Picture of Zach Stark from his MySpace profileZach Starke's story first broke into the blogosphere (and later into the mainstream media) through two posts he made on his MySpace.com blog during the summer. In those two posts, Zach (pictured right) related his confused emotions, feelings and thoughts on how his parents found out about him being gay and later told him that he would be attending an ex-gay camp, known as "Refuge". The camp is run by the ex-gay group Love in Action and is an affiliate of Exodus, International. The first time I covered his story on this blog was near his release from the camp (see post). I had begun to cover his story, however, on my original blog. Zach's story exploded into the LGBT news and then later into such news outlets such as The New York Times, NBC's Today Show and other major newspapers and television networks. His story even reached as far as the national youth radio of Australia. The Reverend Jerry FalwellThe ex-gay movement which Zach found himself wrapped up in received the support of the infamously anti-gay minister, the Reverend Jerry Falwell (pictured left). Rev Falwell, while preaching at the Exodus International conference held near Asheville, NC, during the last weekend of July, "endorsed the forcing of gay teenagers into "reparative therapy" at centers such as Refuge" and also "dismissed psychologists’ claims that consent is fundamental to a healthy counseling relationship and that parents should not force their gay kids into therapy" (see post). At that time I gave a little commentary on the ex-gay movement and the Rev Jerry Falwell:
Falwell has gone and done it again. After opening his big, fat mouth after September 11th, blaming the tragic events on gays, feminists and the ACLU, Falwell is going about his old tricks again. Who should know better about therapy and forced therapy upon youth: The Reverend Bigot Falwell or the American Psychological Association? Also, who knows better about sexual orietnation and the science surrounding it? Just because some people may believe homosexuality is choice does not make it true. The Church once insisted that the earth was the center of the universe, despite science's claims to the contrary. I wonder when the Church will have to apologize for the actions of bigoted leaders like Falwell in the future just like it has apologized for the actions of the leaders in Galileo's day? How much proof do you need people? Do we have to wait five hundred years before we realize, "Ooops... Looks like we were wrong... gay people are born that way." Wake up and smell the coffee!!! While you're at it, start treating ALL of God's beautiful children equally and fairly.
After he came out of the camp, Zach posted yet again on his blog stating, "This isn't going to become my life. I won't let it. There's more to me than this... Those of you who really know me, know that homosexuality was always there but it didn't run my life, and it will not now." From all appearances (although Zach has not confirmed this publicly) the "ex-gay" camp which tried to convert him into being straight had no effect on Zach's sexual orientation (big surprise). The camp might have made him more aware, however, that there is more to life than sexual orientation or to whom one is or isn't attracted. I followed Zach's story carefully, posting on my blog with every new update about him and his situation. I continued to follow the story after he was released from Refuge and carefully watched the unfolding controversy regarding the State of Tennessee's investigation of Love in Action and the national debate on ex-gays and gay youth sparked by Zach's experience. As an extension of my focus on Zach's story, which is a reflection of the experiences of thousands of gay youth across the nation, I also posted routinely on the Winston-Salem/Forsyth County Board of Education and School System. When the Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network (or GLSEN) released its survey of LGBT youth and schools within the State of North Carolina, I contacted the Board of Education and followed up with posts on the various Board members' responses. Out of all of the Board members I received a response from two and also a response from the Superintendant (see post). WS/FC School System LogoI also regularly updated on general LGBT youth issues involving the Winston-Salem/Forsyth County School System and tried to tie in other stories with the current situation within the district. For years local community members, including myself, have been pushing the Board of Education to add sexual orientation and gender-identity to the system's non-discrimination and anti-harassment policies. Of course, the Board has yet to take any action on the issue and has continued to ignore the harassment and abuse of LGBT youth. R.J. Reynolds High SchoolIn the past five years (almost six) with my experience of working with the Winston-Salem chapters of GLSEN (which no longer exists) and PFLAG, as well as with my high school advocacy experiences with the gay-straight student group at R.J. Reynolds High School, my passion to protect LGBT youth within the schools and my stance on such issues has been clear: All youth, regardless of sexual orientation or gender-identity/expression, should feel comfortable, safe and accepted while attending the educational institutions in which they have been forced to attend by law. No student should have to fear going to school and every student should feel as though there teachers, administrators and faculty and staff persons are open to them and willing to help them. While the great majority of teachers and administrators may, in fact, be open and willing to help and protect LGBT youth, their still exists many teachers and administrators who are not. On top of all the harassment and abuse (which could be and should be prevented), unaccepting and unfriendly teachers and administrators are enough reason for the Board of Education to instate policies which include sexual orientation and gender-identity. Without clear and concise policies, implementation and discipline of those policies will remain open to interpretation and practice. Gay-inclusive policies were also an issue within the State Board of Education this year. Equality North Carolina organized a sizeable petition drive to get the Board to keep gay-inclusive language within its new policies on the preparation of school counselors. As a member and Board member of UNCG PRIDE!, I convinced our Executive Board to support Equality North Carolina's push to keep the enumerated policies. Ultimately, however, the State School Board removed the enumerated categories including sexual orienation (see post). The top stories (well, I guess issues) of 2005 are important ones. Zach Stark's story showed the plight of LGBT youth in many similar positions and situations and sparked a much needed nation-wide debate and discussion on gay youth and the ex-gay movement. The numerous issues regarding gay youth and North Carolina schools show us that our Great State of North carolina is no where near to providing safe and accepting places for all of our youth. The future of the State of North Carolina, as well as the United States of America, lies in the hands of our youth. What is our state and nation doing to itself when it does nothing but destroy the young lives of LGBT youth? Children are our most precious gifts and we should treat all youth equally and accept them equally, without regard to race, religion, sex, gender, sexual orientation, gender-identity or ability. Hopefully next year will bring more awareness to the issues facing LGBT youth and maybe next year the State Board of Education, along with the Winston-Salem/Forsyth County School System will finally become aware of those issues. I hope, I pray and I work... all just to see the day when our schools, our state, our nation and our world will finally fully accept all people, unconditionally.
Triad Equality Alliance billboard Fall 2005
Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , ,